As we stroll down the pebble-strewn path
To the waves crashing the basalt shoreline
Hold on to my hand tightly, my baby.
For I’ll teach you, which pebbles to dodge
And which roaring waves to avoid.
But I won’t teach you that
I won’t teach you what the world expects
I won’t teach you to be demure and coy
I won’t teach you to perform at every request.
As we hop-skip-and-jump to the weekly market
At the pier, with our bags swinging jauntily
Hold on to my hand tightly, my baby.
For I’ll teach you to look for the best bargains
And too when a better bargain is not to haggle.
But I won’t teach you that
I won’t teach you to tread over others
I won’t teach you to sell yourself short
I won’t teach you to be false to yourself.
As we amble down the paved road to your school
Admiring the profusion of sea lavenders and fleabanes
Hold on to my hand tightly, my baby.
For I’ll teach you which ones flourish the best
And which ones need more nurture and care.
But I won’t teach you that
I won’t teach you to bend over backward
I won’t teach you to just love others
I won’t teach you to forget yourself.
Today, my little sunshine, you are a girl
Tomorrow you will be a woman,
Day after tomorrow a wife, a daughter-in-law
And one day hence a mother yourself.
But underneath all that, you will be you
I will teach you never to forget yourself
I will teach you to love yourself
I will teach you that you cannot please all
I will teach you to let go and move on.
But I won’t teach you
The things I was taught.
It’s time for a new curriculum
Time to bring in new sensibilities
Time to stand by our sisters
Time to believe in ourselves.
Yes, I won’t teach you that
The things I was taught
That circle breaks, here and now…
Lead Image Courtesy – Pixabay
How beautiful is this poem! May all mothers follow this new curriculum! I’ll be coming back to re-read this several times!
Thank you Manishi. I am so glad this poem found a home in your heart. You are always welcome to re-read this poem and hope you enjoy the other ones too.
That is such a beautiful poem. Loved it.
Thanks Gowri.